We have a serious problem at our house:
We can't get Hyrum and Ivy to go to bed at a reasonable hour. They play and play while we make threats, take away "pillow pets" and special blankets, scream our heads off, and finally, one of them ends up on the extra crib mattress in the bathroom. After five minutes of being separated they both completely zonk out. Is it too much to expect a 3 and 6 year old to let each other sleep in their own beds?
It's a problem because #1. They wake up at the same early hour every morning whether they've gotten enough sleep or not. AND #2. Bry and I spend those precious hours before our own bedtime fighting with the kiddos instead of spending quality time together.
I don't get it, it's not like they don't get enough play time or aren't completely exhausted by the time we tuck them in. I also don't understand why this is starting right now. It's never been a huge problem before. HELP!
So, last night I decided to use the best card I had, the one I knew couldn't lose- I threatened them with NO OUTSIDE time tomorrow if they didn't go to bed immediately. Well, my best card ended up biting me in the rear because, since they completely disregarded the threat, I had to actually follow through. That meant no pool, no park, no bikes, and no other outdoor entertainment to keep them busy and happy enough to forget driving me crazy!
This morning, with the gloom of a day stuck inside hanging over me I decided to make the most of my terrible mistake and have a mommy vacation, so we had our first official "pajama day" of the summer.
My mommy vacation consisted of the following do NOTS: Do NOT make yourself feel guilty for the number of hours the TV is on, Do NOT clean up every mess (immediately), Do NOT dress the kids or fix their hair (teeth brushing was still mandatory), Do NOT stress about how many fruits and veggies everyone does (or does not) ingest, and do NOT even think about following a strict schedule.
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| There was lots of toy time |
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| Lunch consisted of popcorn and chocolate milk... in the playroom! SCANDALOUS! |
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| Messes stayed messy |
All in all, I really enjoyed my mommy vacation, but one day is long enough for now. Hopefully the kids get to bed tonight so we can enjoy a full and busy day tomorrow!